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I have lost a friend.

 

I have known Melvin since the time the Rhodes family moved to White Drive, but I didn’t really know Melvin until ten years or so ago.

 

My Mom had some medical problems and could not walk down the driveway to get the newspaper.  In some remote part of the world I received a letter from my Mom telling me that every morning Melvin would bring her newspapers up the drive and leave them on the back steps.  This is the first time I can remember thinking that Melvin was a pretty good guy.  Melvin continued bringing my mom the papers until I retired.

 

I am convinced that good people do things that go mostly unnoticed and they only receive a thank you for their efforts. Melvin was good people.

 

It was Memorial Day and my Mom woke up to see her yard and the two oak trees and the one elm tree covered with toilet paper.  When Melvin saw this he got Harry Simrall and they spent the better part of the morning burning and picking up toilet paper.  Melvin was good people.

 

When the ice storm hit (two times) the one person in the town that came over with a chain saw and cleaned up all the broken tree limbs was Melvin. 

 

I had a marble military memorial marker that was a copy of my father’s marker in Arlington National Cemetery in the back of my truck.  Melvin saw it and said lets go put it in the cemetery.  I went for gravel and cement and Melvin went to the cemetery and had the hole dug for the monument when I got there.    Melvin was like that.  He enjoyed helping.  Melvin was good people.

 

Memorial Day 2007 dawned with only two American flags on veterans’ graves in Odd Fellows cemetery.  The family of the veterans placed the two flags.  I was telling Melvin that I was going to put flags on all veterans’ graves in the cemetery. Melvin said he would be honored if I would let him help.  So Melvin and I, along with Richard Taylor, took on the task of dressing up the cemetery on Memorial, Independence and Veterans Day.  Melvin was very interested in the inscriptions on tombstones and was constantly calling out to me that this grave was World War One or this one was Viet Nam.  It took us a little longer than normal to place the flags because Melvin would place a flag and then back up and salute, thanking the person for serving his country.  Personally it was very touching to see Melvin salute my father’s memorial marker.  Melvin was good people.

 

Melvin enjoyed politics.  We had a group of politicians that were probably OK, but they just were on the opposite side of the fence from Melvin and me.  The idea evolved that they should all be voted out of office and we should start a campaign to do just that.  One of us came up with the idea of NO INCUMBENTS.  As ideas go we decided that we should have the word NO with the international symbol of a circle with a red slash through it and then the word INCUMBENTS.  Sounded good to both of us.  I forgot about it until Melvin came over and wanted to order some bumper stickers.  The bumper stickers arrived and were passed out.  They were in great demand.  We even made the six o’clock news on TV and a couple of newspaper mentions about our campaign.  We had fun.  Melvin enjoyed life.  He was good people.

 

Melvin called me the day after Christmas to check on me.  Since I have no family he had invited me to his house but I didn’t go.  He wanted to make sure I was doing OK and not having any problems since he had not seen me over the holidays. Melvin was always concerned for others.  It is ironic that he was concerned about my well being on the morning of the day he died.  Melvin was like that.  He was good people.

 

There are times when I walk around White Drive in the mornings that I find myself looking to see if Melvin is out picking up his paper.  I have lost a friend.  I will put the flag on his grave and salute him this year.

 

Skip Agard