Memories

Several people have inquired about a place to share their memories of my father. I hope that this site can serve that purpose. Please email me your relections - tiffinylorraine@mac.com - and I'll copy them onto this site. Please include your name, even if it is just a first name. Thanks.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Proverbial Wisdom

Despite my love of reading, I don't devour books the way Dad did. At least, not since I've had children. Still, I'm currently reading a series of books that has utterly consumed my attention. A few days ago, I ran across a Scottish proverb that really spoke to me.

It's a wise bairn that kens its father.

I had to smile when I read it, because I really did know my father. There have been a lot of occasions to wonder what Dad would think about a certain subject, or what he would do. A few times, I've thought my first instinct might not be right, but a quick double-check with someone else who knew Dad well confirms my original thought. And a few months ago, when I was struggling with a difficult decision, it was my husband who spurred me out of my quandary with a seemingly simple question, "What would your Dad do?"

And no, I might not have always agreed with Dad, and I might not choose to do what he would do... but I have a really good idea of what it would be.

I'm so glad Dad shared so much of himself with us. We are wise for it.

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