Memories

Several people have inquired about a place to share their memories of my father. I hope that this site can serve that purpose. Please email me your relections - tiffinylorraine@mac.com - and I'll copy them onto this site. Please include your name, even if it is just a first name. Thanks.

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Jim H.

Wow. It has been a long time since I had an email like this. Thank you so, so much for writing. I never tire of hearing stories of Daddy. I cannot wait to share it with Mom!
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February 28, 2016

I just happened across your blog and other information about your Dad while I was browsing the Internet reliving memories of my days at Mississippi State.  I was a bartender/waiter at Len Lew's in 1973/1974, and Melvin and Jan could not have been kinder to me.  They were living out back, and I can remember you as well.  Those were some of the happiest times of my life.

I last saw your Dad as I was driving through Starkville -- I think it was around 1980 -- and happened to stop by a package store where he worked.  Blew me away to run into him.
One quick story: I was waiting tables at Len Lew's one evening when a guy had an argument with the lady who was with him and tossed a beer on her.  I told him he had to leave, nervously standing my ground and escorting him out, and he gave me the "you apparently don't know who I am" spiel.  Turned out it was a honcho in the English Dept. at MSU, a longtime good customer and a friend of your folks.  I figured my job was over, but Melvin stood with me, told me I did the right thing and, I believe, talked the guy down about retaliation.

I just felt compelled to write you and let you know a little more about your parents' impact on others' lives, which even they probably were not aware of.  I'm a government retiree living near Fredericksburg, Virginia, these days and don't get back to Mississippi very much.  I'm so glad I came across your blog.  Please give my best to your Mom -- who likely won't remember me -- it was "Jimmy" Holley back then.

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