Toni

I viewed Melvin as a trusted, very intelligent friend. He was one of the most efficient people I've ever known. Some times "deep thinking" people can be dull or poor communicators. Melvin's personality was best marked by balance: in sense of humor, business efficiency, and logic.

I called on him more than once about having to care for an aging parent; we had that in common. Just a sentence or two from him would help me know how to handle yet another dilemma. 

I have had a journey in life about friendships. I have depended on a small group of friends to help me. Both Melvin and Jan are in the "special" circle.

It is a serious loss, a test of faith, because of his many, spontaneous contributions to those he met in the day-to-day. I can only imagine what a test of faith this is. But I can tell you that to have had a husband/father you can be proud of is a Gift.

Fondly,

Toni

2-29-08